Just some thoughts on phone game…
I just read Style’s Stylelife Challenge Phone Teqnique pdf and must say the man point out some good stuff… But i don’t agree on everything.
He says to wait as long as possible – and i do agree to some extent. An HB9-10 i’d definately wait a week if i thought they’d still remember me. Style points out it has definately got to do with two key factors – how well you planted your conversation with her and also how good her self esteem is. True true.
However in my own experience a quick good-night text or “i had fun tonight. good night” before she falls asleep the same night can be very very effective… I wouldn’t call the same night though.
Any PUA would tell you to work towards setting up a day2 on the first call. Preferably ask her to see you later the same week. I have just found out i use the same teqnique as David D’Angelo teaches (at least according to Style’s pdf) – which is: when the subject of meeting comes up – fire away at stating what days you’re not able to make it to demonstrate, among other things, that you’re really busy… also you should be the one suggesting what day of the ones that you haven’t mentioned you’re busy on – to keep control of the direction. You always have to calibrate after what type of girl you’re talking w/ when it comes to what type of plans to make. But sometimes giving her two options are good. If she says she’s too busy Style suggests to tell her to break off some of her other plans because you are “more fun”.
Never, under any circumstances, introduce yourself at the start of the convo. Normal mannerism that you’ve learned tend to fuck this up from time to time – but reeeesist the feeling of wanting to start with “hey it’s XXXX” – assume she’ll know who she’s talking too – but do bait her by refering to the connection you had earlier through something relevant to the conversation. I kind of also use this from time to time at work – because it makes you in control of the conversation right of the bat… (depending on who you’re talking too or what you do for work o-course…)
Style warns though that an initial text can be seen as a token of lower value and self esteem – on this i do agree if it is done the wrong way. A same-night good night or so, i feel, will elude this auto DLVing.
